Gordon Birnie, NCPS
Gordon Birnie is a psychosexual and relationship counsellor based in the United Kingdom.
- Stress & Anxiety
- LGBT
- Relationship issues
- +7 more
About Gordon
Gordon Birnie is a psychosexual and relationship counsellor based in the United Kingdom. He supports people facing anxiety, depression, stress, sexual difficulties and relationship or intimacy concerns. He also works with clients navigating LGBT and gender identity matters and people coping with major life changes.
He uses a straightforward, non-judgemental style in sessions. He aims to make people feel listened to and understood before suggesting practical steps. Conversations are down to earth and focused on what will help in daily life.
Background and approach
Gordon draws on Client-Centred Therapy to prioritise the client’s perspective and create a respectful space for exploration. He uses Solution-Focused Therapy to identify small, achievable changes and build momentum. He also works with ideas from Imago Relationship Therapy when relationship patterns and communication are a focus.
With three years of professional experience, Gordon has supported people with trauma and abuse, low self-esteem, attachment issues and a range of sexual concerns including kink, non-monogamy and sexual dysfunction. He also helps with process and sex-related addictive behaviours, guilt and shame, and career-related stress. Sessions are offered in English and are available via video calls, phone, live chat or text-based messaging.
He is registered with NCPS and works with adults in the UK. To begin, clients use the Start Therapy button and complete a short matching questionnaire before booking.
Registration
| Body | Registration number | Expires |
|---|---|---|
| NCPS | NCS21-00365 | February 2026 |
Registration details are as listed on the counsellor's public profile. You can check any number with the registering body.
Sessions and payment
Sessions are held online through our partner platform, by video, phone or messaging depending on the counsellor.
Costs are shown on the partner platform before you commit. If cost is a concern, ask about reduced-fee options.
Focus areas and approaches
What Gordon works with
Everything Gordon lists, in their own terms.
- Stress, Anxiety
- LGBT
- Relationship issues
- Intimacy-related issues
- Depression
- Trauma and abuse
- Self esteem
- Career difficulties
- Coping with life changes
- Attachment issues
- BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture
- Communication problems
- Guilt and shame
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Multicultural concerns
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Sex addiction
- Sexual dysfunction
- Sexuality
Approaches Gordon lists
Listing an approach is not evidence of training in it. This directory copies what each counsellor names and does not check training records.
Online support
Choosing the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will talk with each person about goals and preferences and together they will decide which methods to try. That collaborative process means approaches can shift as needs change.
Online sessions offer practical flexibility. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation when visual cues matter. Phone sessions are useful when someone needs lower bandwidth or a quieter check-in. Live chat and text-based messaging suit brief updates, ongoing support between sessions, or people who prefer writing to speaking. These options make it easier to fit therapy into busy or changing lives.
Frequently asked
What kinds of problems does this counsellor help with?
He supports people with anxiety, stress and depression, plus relationship and intimacy concerns. He also helps with sexual difficulties, LGBT and gender identity matters and life changes.
How would he describe his therapeutic style?
He works in a down-to-earth, non-judgemental way and aims to listen first. Conversations focus on practical steps that can make daily life easier.
What experience does he bring?
He has three years of professional experience working with psychosexual and relationship issues alongside anxiety, trauma and self-esteem concerns.
What credentials and location are listed?
He is registered with NCPS and practises in the United Kingdom.
Which languages are sessions offered in?
Sessions are offered in English.
Can people outside the UK work with him?
He is not taking international clients; his practice is based in the United Kingdom.
What session formats are available?
Sessions can take place by video call, phone, live chat or text-based messaging to suit different preferences and schedules.
How does the sign-up process work?
Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability. The service uses a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.
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