Reuben Alexander, NCPS
Reuben Alexander is a counsellor who blends practical therapies to help people move forward.
- Stress & Anxiety
- Sleeping disorders
- Depression
- +12 more
About Reuben
Reuben Alexander is a counsellor who blends practical therapies to help people move forward. He welcomes straightforward conversation and focuses on real problems like low mood, anxiety and trouble sleeping. Reuben presents himself in plain language and aims to make sessions feel calm and focused.
He uses tools from approaches such as Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and Attachment-Based Therapy. In sessions he helps people notice unhelpful patterns, test new ways of thinking and take small steps that make day-to-day life easier.
Background and approach
Reuben draws on four years of clinical experience to match techniques to each person’s needs. Reuben holds NCPS, which denotes his professional registration with that body. He works with people facing a wide range of concerns, including depression, stress, addiction, grief and relationship difficulties.
He also supports conversations about identity, fatherhood and family of origin issues. Practical issues are part of his work too. Reuben talks through coping strategies for sleep, impulsivity and anger.
He helps people develop routines and experiments they can try between sessions. The focus is on simple, doable changes rather than abstract theory. Sessions are offered in English and Reuben accepts international clients.
He aims to be direct but compassionate, helping people build steady habits and clearer thinking over time.
Registration
| Body | Registration number | Expires |
|---|---|---|
| NCPS | NCS24-05346 | November 2026 |
Registration details are as listed on the counsellor's public profile. You can check any number with the registering body.
Sessions and payment
Sessions are held online through our partner platform, by video, phone or messaging depending on the counsellor.
Costs are shown on the partner platform before you commit. If cost is a concern, ask about reduced-fee options.
Focus areas and approaches
What Reuben works with
Everything Reuben lists, in their own terms.
- Stress, Anxiety
- Sleeping disorders
- Depression
- Coping with life changes
- ADHD
- Addictions
- Relationship issues
- Trauma and abuse
- Grief
- Intimacy-related issues
- Eating disorders
- Parenting issues
- Anger management
- Self esteem
- Abandonment
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Emptiness
- Family of origin issues
- Fatherhood issues
- Forgiveness
- Gender dysphoria
- Guilt and shame
- Impulsivity
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Mood disorders
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Phobias
- Postpartum depression
- Post-traumatic stress
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Young adult issues
Approaches Reuben lists
- Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
- Attachment-Based Therapy
- Client-Centred Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
- Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)
- Jungian Therapy
- Psychodynamic Therapy
- Solution-Focused Therapy
Listing an approach is not evidence of training in it. This directory copies what each counsellor names and does not check training records.
Online support
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, CBT, looks at how thoughts, feelings and behaviours interact. It gives practical exercises to challenge unhelpful thinking and build routines that improve sleep, mood and anxiety symptoms.
Attachment-Based Therapy explores relationship patterns formed early on and how they affect current connections. It is useful for intimacy issues, abandonment feelings and family of origin concerns.
Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will discuss options and try techniques together to see what fits the client’s needs, goals and preferences. This collaborative process means methods can be adjusted as therapy progresses.
Online sessions can be conducted by video call, phone, live chat or text-based messaging. Video calls let people use visual cues, phone sessions need less bandwidth and can be easier when a quick check-in is needed, and messaging can suit short updates or ongoing support between meetings. These options make it easier to attend sessions from different places and at different times, offering flexibility while keeping therapy focused and practical.
Frequently asked
What concerns does Reuben work with?
He helps with depression, anxiety, stress and sleep problems, along with addiction, grief and relationship issues.
What is his therapeutic style like?
Reuben mixes approaches such as ACT, CBT and attachment-based ideas into a practical, down-to-earth style focused on small changes.
How much clinical experience does he have?
He has four years of professional experience working with a variety of concerns and life transitions.
What credentials and location are listed?
He is registered with NCPS and practices from the United Kingdom.
Which languages and international options are available?
Sessions are offered in English and he accepts international clients.
What session formats does he offer?
He works via video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text-based messaging.
How is cost handled for sessions?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions are provided through a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.
How do I begin working with him?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to therapist availability.
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