Benedicta Sanio Ala-Oborie, BACP
Benedicta Sanio Ala-Oborie is a counsellor who trained with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP.
- Stress & Anxiety
- Family conflicts
- Grief
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About Benedicta
Benedicta Sanio Ala-Oborie is a counsellor who trained with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP. She has worked in Edinburgh as a psychodynamic and person-centred practitioner for four years. Benedicta helps people facing depression, anxiety, grief and stress, and she offers a calm, respectful presence in sessions.
Her background blends psychodynamic and client-centred ways of working. She uses mindfulness and breath work alongside somatic ideas to help people notice how feelings show up in the body.
Background and approach
This combination aims to make sense of current struggles and longstanding patterns. Benedicta describes her style as warm, non-judgemental and sensitive. She focuses on the relationship in therapy and adapts her approach to each person's needs.
Sessions are built around listening, gentle challenge and practical ways to manage distress. She works with a wide range of concerns, including relationship and intimacy issues, trauma and abuse, parenting and family worries, eating and body image issues, and problems with anger or self-esteem. She also supports people coping with chronic illness, abandonment or attachment difficulties.
Therapy with Benedicta is collaborative. She does not provide diagnoses, but she can work with any diagnosis you already have to help make meaning of your experience. People who want a thoughtful, reflective space to talk are likely to do well with her approach.
Registration
| Body | Registration number | Expires |
|---|---|---|
| BACP | 391948 | May 2026 |
Registration details are as listed on the counsellor's public profile. You can check any number with the registering body.
Sessions and payment
Sessions are held online through our partner platform, by video, phone or messaging depending on the counsellor.
Costs are shown on the partner platform before you commit. If cost is a concern, ask about reduced-fee options.
Focus areas and approaches
What Benedicta works with
Everything Benedicta lists, in their own terms.
- Stress, Anxiety
- Family conflicts
- Grief
- Self esteem
- Coping with life changes
- LGBT
- Relationship issues
- Trauma and abuse
- Intimacy-related issues
- Eating disorders
- Parenting issues
- Anger management
- Depression
- Compassion fatigue
- ADHD
- Abandonment
- Attachment issues
- BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture
- Body image
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Eating and food-related issues
- Emptiness
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Forgiveness
- Guilt and shame
- Isolation / loneliness
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Multicultural concerns
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Personality disorders
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Postpartum depression
- Post-traumatic stress
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self-harm
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexuality
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Approaches Benedicta lists
- Client-Centred Therapy
- Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)
- Existential Therapy
- Mindfulness Therapy
- Psychodynamic Therapy
- Somatic Therapy
- Trauma-Focused Therapy
Listing an approach is not evidence of training in it. This directory copies what each counsellor names and does not check training records.
Online support
Finding the right approach is part of the process. Benedicta will work together with each person to choose methods that match their needs, goals and preferences. She adapts the balance of listening, reflection and practical tools as sessions progress so therapy stays relevant to the individual's situation.
Online sessions are offered via video call, phone, live chat or text-based messaging to give flexibility. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation, while phone sessions can be easier when bandwidth is limited. Live chat and text messaging suit shorter check-ins or times when typing feels more comfortable. These options make it easier to fit therapy around work, family life and other commitments, and to keep continuity when travel would be difficult.
Frequently asked
What kinds of problems can Benedicta help with?
She works with depression, anxiety, grief and stress, as well as relationship and intimacy concerns, trauma and abuse, self-esteem and eating issues.
How would you describe her therapeutic style?
Her style is warm, non-judgemental and relational, using listening and gentle challenge to help people understand their feelings and patterns.
What experience does she bring to therapy?
Benedicta has four years' experience working as a psychodynamic and person-centred counsellor in Edinburgh.
What credentials and location are listed?
She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP, and works from the United Kingdom.
Which languages are sessions offered in?
Sessions are offered in English.
What formats are available for sessions?
Sessions can take place by video call, phone, live chat or text-based messaging.
How is cost handled for sessions?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.
How do I begin working with Benedicta?
Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.
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