Lilia Sykes, BACP
Lilia Sykes is a BACP counsellor based in the United Kingdom who offers calm, steady support for people coping with practical and emotional strain.
- Stress & Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Self Esteem
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About Lilia
Lilia Sykes is a BACP counsellor based in the United Kingdom who offers calm, steady support for people coping with practical and emotional strain. She focuses on helping people manage stress, anxiety and depression and on improving how they relate to themselves and others. Lilia listens with attention and empathy and aims to make sessions feel simple and understandable.
Her style centres on a client-centred approach that gives people space to talk and to decide what to explore.
Background and approach
She uses that warm, non-directive stance as a foundation and brings in brief, practical techniques when they suit the person. Sessions often include mindful exercises, thought-focused work and values-based tasks to try between meetings. Lilia draws on eight years of hands-on experience supporting people through grief, trauma and life changes.
She also works with issues such as addiction, low self-esteem, sleep and eating difficulties, anger, career stress and relationship concerns. Additional focuses include attachment wounds, abandonment, autism and blended family issues. People frequently use her help for coping with chronic illness, caregiver stress, codependency and isolation.
She is familiar with intimacy-related concerns, parenting strain and compassion fatigue. Lilia aims to make it easier to notice patterns and try small changes that feel manageable. Sessions are offered in English and Lilia accepts international clients.
She prefers voice calls to limit screen time but can use video, live chat or messaging when needed. If a different slot is required she tries to be flexible around scheduling.
Registration
| Body | Registration number | Expires |
|---|---|---|
| BACP | 377735 | March 2026 |
Registration details are as listed on the counsellor's public profile. You can check any number with the registering body.
Sessions and payment
Sessions are held online through our partner platform, by video, phone or messaging depending on the counsellor.
Costs are shown on the partner platform before you commit. If cost is a concern, ask about reduced-fee options.
Focus areas and approaches
What Lilia works with
Everything Lilia lists, in their own terms.
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Self esteem
- Depression
- Coping with life changes
- Addictions
- LGBT
- Family conflicts
- Trauma and abuse
- Grief
- Intimacy-related issues
- Eating disorders
- Sleeping disorders
- Parenting issues
- Anger management
- Career difficulties
- Compassion fatigue
- ADHD
- Abandonment
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Codependency
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Divorce and separation
- Family problems
- Forgiveness
- Guilt and shame
- Isolation / loneliness
- Multicultural concerns
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Self-love
- Women's issues
Approaches Lilia lists
- Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
- Client-Centred Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
- Mindfulness Therapy
- Motivational Interviewing
- Solution-Focused Therapy
Listing an approach is not evidence of training in it. This directory copies what each counsellor names and does not check training records.
Online support
Client-Centred Therapy focuses on listening, empathy and creating a non-judgemental space. This approach encourages people to set the pace and decide what to explore, useful for building self-trust and working through grief or shame.
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) looks at the links between thoughts, feelings and behaviours and teaches straightforward techniques to test and change unhelpful patterns. It is often used for anxiety, low mood and sleep or eating concerns.
Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will talk with the person about goals, preferences and practical needs, then try methods that fit. That collaborative process means approaches can be adjusted over time to suit how someone responds.
Online sessions offer flexibility through video calls, phone sessions, live chat and messaging. Video is helpful for face-to-face connection, phone calls need less bandwidth and can be easier when a shorter check-in is preferred, and messaging suits ongoing reflection or brief updates between meetings. These options make it easier to fit therapy around work, caring duties and busy lives while keeping continuity of support.
Frequently asked
What concerns does she help with?
She supports people with stress, anxiety and depression and with related issues such as relationship problems, grief and trauma.
What is the therapeutic style like?
The work is client-centred and non-directive, with practical techniques added when helpful, such as mindfulness and cognitive exercises.
How much experience does she have?
She has eight years of clinical experience working with a wide range of emotional and life concerns.
What credentials and location are listed?
She is BACP registered and is based in the United Kingdom.
Which languages and international options are available?
Sessions are offered in English and she accepts international clients.
What session formats are offered?
Therapy is available via video calls, phone sessions, live chat or text-based messaging.
How are costs and subscriptions handled?
Costs vary with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.
How do I begin working with her?
Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.
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