Monica Mendes, BACP
Monica Mendes is a counsellor with 11 years of professional experience in the United Kingdom.
- Stress & Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Family conflicts
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About Monica
Monica Mendes is a counsellor with 11 years of professional experience in the United Kingdom. She helps people facing stress, anxiety, depression and low mood. She also supports those working through relationship or family problems, grief and loss, and struggles with self-esteem and confidence.
Monica aims to treat every person with respect and sensitivity. She adapts sessions to each client's needs and goals. Her style is warm and straightforward, focusing on what a person wants to change and how to get there.
Background and approach
In sessions she listens without judgement and helps clients notice patterns that keep them stuck. She uses practical tools and short exercises to build coping skills and reduce distress. Conversations are paced by the client and directed toward small, achievable steps.
Monica draws on client-centred work to create a calm, accepting space. She also uses mindfulness exercises to help people manage overwhelming feelings. Motivational interviewing and solution-focused ideas help clients clarify goals and try new behaviours.
She has experience with a wide range of concerns including trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, caregiver stress, attachment and abandonment worries, and aspects of sexual identity and kink culture. Monica also supports people facing career stress, anger, dissociation and feelings of emptiness. If someone wants to begin, she asks a few questions to understand the situation and then agrees practical next steps.
Sessions are tailored to fit what each person finds most useful.
Registration
| Body | Registration number | Expires |
|---|---|---|
| BACP | 93824 | December 2026 |
Registration details are as listed on the counsellor's public profile. You can check any number with the registering body.
Sessions and payment
Sessions are held online through our partner platform, by video, phone or messaging depending on the counsellor.
Costs are shown on the partner platform before you commit. If cost is a concern, ask about reduced-fee options.
Focus areas and approaches
What Monica works with
Everything Monica lists, in their own terms.
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Family conflicts
- Grief
- Coping with life changes
- LGBT
- Trauma and abuse
- Intimacy-related issues
- Anger management
- Self esteem
- Career difficulties
- Depression
- Compassion fatigue
- Abandonment
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- Avoidant personality
- BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Dependent personality
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Emptiness
- Family problems
- First responder issues
- Forgiveness
- Guilt and shame
- Infidelity
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Midlife crisis
- Multicultural concerns
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Post-traumatic stress
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexuality
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Approaches Monica lists
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Online support
She also uses mindfulness techniques to help people notice and manage strong emotions and physical tension. Simple breathing and attention practices are offered to reduce overwhelm and create steadier moments in daily life.
Finding the right approach is usually a joint process. Monica talks with each person about what feels most helpful and adapts methods to their goals and preferences. That collaborative stance means techniques can be tried, reviewed and changed as needed.
Online formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text-based messaging. Video calls let people work face to face across distance. Phone sessions can be easier when bandwidth is limited or for a shorter check-in. Live chat and text messaging suit people who prefer typing, need flexible timing or want shorter between-session contact. These options make it simpler to fit therapy around work, caregiving and travel while keeping the focus on practical steps and personal goals.
Frequently asked
What concerns does Monica work with?
She supports people with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and family problems, grief, low self-esteem and related issues.
How would you describe her therapeutic style?
Her style is warm, straightforward and respectful. Sessions are paced by the client and aim for practical, achievable steps.
What is her professional background?
She has 11 years of professional experience in the United Kingdom working with a broad range of emotional and interpersonal concerns.
What credentials and location are listed?
She holds BACP and practises from the United Kingdom.
Which languages and international arrangements are supported?
Sessions are offered in English and Monica accepts international clients.
What session formats are available?
She offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text-based messaging to suit different needs.
How are fees handled?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.
How do I get started with therapy?
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