Shelley Wilman, BACP
Shelley Wilman brings three decades of practice in the United Kingdom to her counselling work.
About Shelley
Shelley Wilman brings three decades of practice in the United Kingdom to her counselling work. She is a BACP member and has spent many years helping people who feel stuck by stress, anxiety, grief and depression. Her tone is straightforward and calm, aimed at someone unsure which step to take next.
Shelley sees each person as the expert in their own life. She uses that view to build practical plans shaped around what the client already knows about themselves.
Background and approach
Sessions focus on understanding current difficulties and on small, doable steps that can change day-to-day life. Her approach is flexible rather than fixed. She commonly uses client-centred listening alongside cognitive behavioural ideas and trauma-focused methods such as EMDR when appropriate.
The emphasis is on clear goals, gentle exploration of feelings, and practical coping strategies. Shelley often works with concerns linked to relationships, self-esteem and life transitions. She also supports people facing anger, intimacy issues, family problems, body image worries and the after-effects of abuse or loss.
Conversations can address specific problems like communication or commitment concerns and the emotional fallout from separation. Sessions are collaborative and paced to the individual. Shelley encourages clients to name what matters most and then tries out ways forward together.
The work aims to increase choice, reduce overwhelm and restore a sense of control in everyday life.
Registration
| Body | Registration number | Expires |
|---|---|---|
| BACP | 47238 | March 2026 |
Registration details are as listed on the counsellor's public profile. You can check any number with the registering body.
Sessions and payment
Sessions are held online through our partner platform, by video, phone or messaging depending on the counsellor.
Costs are shown on the partner platform before you commit. If cost is a concern, ask about reduced-fee options.
Focus areas and approaches
What Shelley works with
Everything Shelley lists, in their own terms.
- Stress, Anxiety
- Trauma and abuse
- Grief
- Self esteem
- Depression
- Relationship issues
- Family conflicts
- Intimacy-related issues
- Anger management
- Abandonment
- Body image
- Cancer
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Emptiness
- Family problems
- Gender dysphoria
- Guilt and shame
- Impulsivity
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
- Money and financial issues
- Narcissism
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Post-traumatic stress
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexuality
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
Approaches Shelley lists
- Client-Centred Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
- Existential Therapy
- Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)
- Solution-Focused Therapy
- Trauma-Focused Therapy
Listing an approach is not evidence of training in it. This directory copies what each counsellor names and does not check training records.
Online support
Cognitive behavioural therapy, or CBT, looks at links between thoughts, feelings and actions. It uses practical exercises and small experiments to change patterns that maintain anxiety or low mood, and can provide tools to manage daily stress.
Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing, EMDR, is a trauma-focused method that helps reduce the intensity of painful memories. It is used when past events continue to affect current mood and functioning.
Finding the best approach is a collaborative process. Shelley will talk with each person about goals, preferences and what feels right for them, then try methods that suit those aims. Plans are reviewed and adapted as therapy progresses so the work stays relevant.
Online formats make it easier to fit therapy into life. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation from different locations. Phone sessions can be quicker check-ins and work when bandwidth is limited. Live chat and text messaging suit shorter updates, reflective notes or people who prefer typing. Together these options offer flexibility and steady continuity of care.
Frequently asked
What kinds of problems does Shelley help with?
Shelley helps people with stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, grief, self-esteem and depression. She also supports concerns such as relationship strain, intimacy issues, anger and family problems.
How would you describe her therapeutic style?
Her style is collaborative and straightforward. She listens in a client-centred way and works with clear goals and practical steps.
What experience does she bring to therapy?
She has 30 years of professional experience working in the United Kingdom. That background includes long-term practice with trauma, loss and mood difficulties.
What credentials and location are listed?
She is a member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, shown as BACP, and practises in the United Kingdom.
Can I work with her if I live outside the UK?
Sessions are offered only to people in the United Kingdom. International clients are not accepted.
Which session formats are available?
Sessions can be held via video calls, phone sessions, live chat or text-based messaging. The range of formats offers options for different preferences and schedules.
How is cost handled for sessions?
Costs vary with location and therapist availability. Sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.
What are the first steps to begin therapy?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button and completing a short matching questionnaire. After that you can schedule sessions according to therapist availability.
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