Jay Cook, NCPS
Jay Cook is a counsellor with NCPS who uses straightforward, practical work to help people feel steadier.
- Stress & Anxiety
- LGBT
- Relationship issues
- +12 more
About Jay
Jay Cook is a counsellor with NCPS who uses straightforward, practical work to help people feel steadier. He draws on five years of experience supporting people through stress, anxiety, depression and relationship concerns. He aims to make the first steps easier for anyone who feels stuck or overwhelmed.
He offers a welcoming, non-judgemental space where people can talk about difficult feelings. Sessions focus on what matters to the person in front of him.
Background and approach
That might mean learning short-term skills to manage panic, or exploring patterns that keep someone feeling low. Jay combines evidence-informed techniques with a person-centred attitude. He uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Cognitive Behavioural Therapy to help people notice unhelpful thoughts and take values-led action.
He also uses Attachment-Based ideas to look at how early relationships shape current struggles. His work covers a wide range of concerns including addictions, intimacy-related issues, parenting strain, career stress, ADHD, self-esteem and recovery from trauma and abuse. He also supports people with LGBT-related challenges and those coping with major life changes.
Jay has worked with clients across different countries and cultural backgrounds, which informs a flexible, respectful approach. He offers sessions in English and accepts international clients via online formats. To begin, people use the Start Therapy button and complete a short matching questionnaire.
Registration
| Body | Registration number | Expires |
|---|---|---|
| NCPS | NCS23-02658 | September 2026 |
Registration details are as listed on the counsellor's public profile. You can check any number with the registering body.
Sessions and payment
Sessions are held online through our partner platform, by video, phone or messaging depending on the counsellor.
Costs are shown on the partner platform before you commit. If cost is a concern, ask about reduced-fee options.
Focus areas and approaches
What Jay works with
Everything Jay lists, in their own terms.
- Stress, Anxiety
- LGBT
- Relationship issues
- Self esteem
- Depression
- Addictions
- Family conflicts
- Trauma and abuse
- Intimacy-related issues
- Parenting issues
- Anger management
- Career difficulties
- Coping with life changes
- ADHD
- Abandonment
- Antisocial personality
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- Avoidant personality
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Cancer
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Dependent personality
- Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating and food-related issues
- Emptiness
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Forgiveness
- Gender dysphoria
- Guilt and shame
- Hearing impaired
- Hoarding
- Immigration issues
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Intellectual disability
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Multicultural concerns
- Narcissism
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Paranoia
- Personality disorders
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Post-traumatic stress
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexual dysfunction
- Sexuality
- Smoking / vaping cessation
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Visually impaired
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Approaches Jay lists
- Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
- Attachment-Based Therapy
- Client-Centred Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
- Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT)
- Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)
- Existential Therapy
- Mindfulness Therapy
- Motivational Interviewing
- Solution-Focused Therapy
Listing an approach is not evidence of training in it. This directory copies what each counsellor names and does not check training records.
Online support
Finding the right approach is part of the therapeutic process. Jay works collaboratively to decide which methods suit each person's needs and goals. He listens to what matters most to the client and adjusts techniques so they fit the person's pace and preferences.
Online therapy offers practical benefits for many people. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation across distance. Phone sessions can be a good option when bandwidth is limited or when someone prefers not to be on camera. Live chat and text messaging are useful for brief check-ins, homework support and people who prefer writing. These formats provide flexibility for different routines, time zones and daily commitments, while keeping the focus on steady, goal-oriented work with registered or accredited professionals.
Frequently asked
What kinds of problems can be brought to therapy?
Jay works with a wide range of concerns including stress, anxiety, depression, addictions, relationship and intimacy issues, self-esteem and trauma-related difficulties.
What is Jay's general therapeutic style?
His style is collaborative and person-centred, mixing practical skill teaching with reflective conversation. The aim is to help people manage distress while moving towards clearer goals.
How much experience does he have?
Jay has five years of professional experience supporting people from varied cultural backgrounds and different countries.
What are Jay's credentials and where is he based?
He is listed with NCPS and practises from the United Kingdom.
Which language(s) are sessions offered in?
Sessions are offered in English and Jay accepts international clients who can take part remotely.
What session formats are available?
Sessions can take place by video call, phone, live chat, or text-based messaging depending on the client's preference.
How are fees handled?
Cost varies with location and therapist arrangements; sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.
How do I begin working with Jay?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.
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