Paula Ciocirlau, BACP
Paula Ciocirlau is a counsellor who helps people facing stress, anxiety and depression.
- Stress & Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Parenting issues
- +20 more
About Paula
Paula Ciocirlau is a counsellor who helps people facing stress, anxiety and depression. She works with individuals who are dealing with relationship strain, parenting pressures, work difficulties and major life changes. Paula speaks English and Romanian and offers sessions to people inside and outside the United Kingdom.
She uses simple, practical conversation to help people understand what is getting in the way of feeling better. Sessions are collaborative - the person in therapy sets goals and Paula guides the process.
Background and approach
She draws on eight years of experience to respond to each person's needs rather than following a fixed script. Paula trained and began her psychotherapy journey in Vienna, Austria, in 2016. That international background informs how she connects with people from different cultures and life paths.
She holds BACP accreditation, which is recorded as BACP in her profile. The work often explores thoughts, emotions and everyday habits. Paula uses client-centred listening to hear what matters most, and solution-focused techniques to identify small practical steps.
She also uses Internal Family Systems ideas to help people understand inner parts that influence behaviour. Sessions are offered by video call, phone, live chat or text-based messaging. Fees follow a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time, and vary with location and therapist availability.
To begin, people use the Start Therapy button and complete a short matching questionnaire before booking a session.
Registration
| Body | Registration number | Expires |
|---|---|---|
| BACP | 387673 | March 2026 |
Registration details are as listed on the counsellor's public profile. You can check any number with the registering body.
Sessions and payment
Sessions are held online through our partner platform, by video, phone or messaging depending on the counsellor.
Costs are shown on the partner platform before you commit. If cost is a concern, ask about reduced-fee options.
Focus areas and approaches
What Paula works with
Everything Paula lists, in their own terms.
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Parenting issues
- Career difficulties
- Depression
- Addictions
- LGBT
- Family conflicts
- Trauma and abuse
- Grief
- Intimacy-related issues
- Eating disorders
- Sleeping disorders
- Anger management
- Self esteem
- Bipolar disorder
- Coping with life changes
- Coaching
- Compassion fatigue
- ADHD
- Abandonment
- Adoption and foster care
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Antisocial personality
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- Avoidant personality
- BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Cancer
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Co-morbidity
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Dependent personality
- Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating and food-related issues
- Emptiness
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Fertility issues
- First responder issues
- Forgiveness
- Gender dysphoria
- Guilt and shame
- Hearing impaired
- HIV / AIDS
- Hoarding
- Immigration issues
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Intellectual disability
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Multicultural concerns
- Narcissism
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Paranoia
- Personality disorders
- Phobias
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Postpartum depression
- Post-traumatic stress
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexual dysfunction
- Sexuality
- Smoking / vaping cessation
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Somatization
- Traumatic brain injury
- Trichotillomania
- Visually impaired
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Approaches Paula lists
Listing an approach is not evidence of training in it. This directory copies what each counsellor names and does not check training records.
Online support
Solution-Focused Therapy looks for small, practical steps that lead to change. It is useful when someone wants clear, short-term goals for issues such as work stress, sleeping problems or coping with life changes.
Internal Family Systems helps people notice different inner parts that influence feelings and behaviour. This can be helpful for issues like trauma responses, self-criticism, or mood swings by building a kinder inner dialogue.
Choosing the right approach is part of working together. The therapist will listen to your goals and preferences and suggest what to try first. Over time the plan can change based on what helps most, so the process stays collaborative and focused on your needs.
Online sessions make therapy easier to fit into busy lives. Video calls let you meet face to face, phone sessions use less bandwidth, and live chat or text-based messaging suit brief check-ins or people who prefer writing. These options offer flexibility for different schedules, quieter environments and varying technology needs, while keeping the focus on the work you want to do.
Frequently asked
What concerns does this counsellor help with?
Paula supports people with stress, anxiety, depression and related issues such as relationship strain, parenting pressures, addictions and grief.
How would she approach our sessions?
She combines client-centred listening with solution-focused steps and Internal Family Systems ideas to help clients spot patterns and try practical changes.
What is her professional background?
Paula began her psychotherapy journey in Vienna in 2016 and brings eight years of experience working with diverse clients and concerns.
Where is she based and what credential does she hold?
She is based in the United Kingdom and is recorded with BACP as her listed credential.
Which languages are used in sessions?
Sessions are offered in English and Romanian and she can work with people internationally.
What session formats are available?
Therapy is offered via video calls, phone sessions, live chat or text-based messaging to suit different needs and schedules.
How are fees handled?
Costs vary with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.
How do I start therapy with her?
Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.
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