Virginia Toole, BACP
Virginia Toole is a counsellor who helps people facing depression, grief, anxiety and major life changes.
About Virginia
Virginia Toole is a counsellor who helps people facing depression, grief, anxiety and major life changes. She offers a calm, non-judgemental space where people can talk honestly about pain, loss, stress and relationship strain. Sessions are offered in English and are available online for international clients.
She uses a gentle, person-focused way of working that centres each person’s experience. That means listening closely, reflecting what matters to you, and helping you find ways to cope that fit your life.
Background and approach
Over time she supports people to notice small changes and build steadier ways of managing strong emotions. Her approach draws on client-centred principles and narrative ideas. Conversations aim to make sense of difficult events and to help people rewrite the stories that keep them stuck.
She also incorporates mindfulness practices to reduce tension and hypnotherapy techniques to assist with calming and focus when appropriate. Virginia holds BACP registration, which informs her professional practice and ethical standards. She has worked in counselling for six years and supports people with concerns such as addiction, trauma, parenting stress, bipolar mood challenges and self-esteem difficulties.
Night and some Saturday sessions are offered by arrangement. Sessions can be short-term or longer-term depending on need. People often start by describing what feels most urgent and then agree simple, achievable steps together.
The overall aim is to help people regain steadiness, manage symptoms of depression and rebuild a more manageable daily life.
Registration
| Body | Registration number | Expires |
|---|---|---|
| BACP | 382982 | February 2027 |
Registration details are as listed on the counsellor's public profile. You can check any number with the registering body.
Sessions and payment
Sessions are held online through our partner platform, by video, phone or messaging depending on the counsellor.
Costs are shown on the partner platform before you commit. If cost is a concern, ask about reduced-fee options.
Focus areas and approaches
What Virginia works with
Everything Virginia lists, in their own terms.
- Grief
- Coping with life changes
- Stress, Anxiety
- Addictions
- LGBT
- Relationship issues
- Family conflicts
- Trauma and abuse
- Intimacy-related issues
- Parenting issues
- Anger management
- Self esteem
- Career difficulties
- Bipolar disorder
- Depression
- Coaching
- Compassion fatigue
- ADHD
- Abandonment
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- Avoidant personality
- Blended family issues
- Cancer
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Dependent personality
- Divorce and separation
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Emptiness
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Forgiveness
- Gender dysphoria
- Guilt and shame
- Hearing impaired
- Hoarding
- Hospice and end-of-life counselling
- Immigration issues
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
- Money and financial issues
- Multicultural concerns
- Narcissism
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Paranoia
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Postpartum depression
- Post-traumatic stress
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual dysfunction
- Sexuality
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Trichotillomania
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Approaches Virginia lists
- Client-Centred Therapy
- Hypnotherapy
- Mindfulness Therapy
- Motivational Interviewing
- Narrative Therapy
- Solution-Focused Therapy
Listing an approach is not evidence of training in it. This directory copies what each counsellor names and does not check training records.
Online support
Narrative Therapy helps people look at the stories they tell about themselves and their problems. By separating the person from the problem, it becomes easier to see options and make different choices when coping with life changes or trauma.
Mindfulness Therapy offers simple practices to reduce stress and bring attention back to the present. Short breathing or grounding exercises can help with panic, low mood and fluctuating energy levels.
Finding the right approach is part of the work together. The counsellor will discuss which methods might suit a person’s goals and preferences, and will adapt techniques as sessions progress. Decisions are made collaboratively so the plan fits your life and pace.
Online sessions are offered by video call, phone, live chat or text-based messaging. Video calls are useful for face-to-face conversation and visual cues, phone sessions work well when internet is unstable or when someone prefers not to be on camera, and chat or messaging can suit brief check-ins or people who express themselves better in writing. These formats make it easier to fit therapy around work, caregiving or long-distance arrangements and give flexibility about when and how to connect.
Frequently asked
What concerns does she help with?
She supports people dealing with depression, grief, anxiety, stress and addictions. Other areas include relationship strain, parenting pressures, bipolar challenges and trauma.
How would you describe her therapeutic style?
Her style is warm and person-centred, with emphasis on listening and understanding. She aims to make space for emotions and to work at the client’s pace.
What experience does she bring?
She has six years of counselling experience working with a wide range of concerns. That experience informs a practical, steady approach to emotional distress.
What credentials and location are listed?
She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, shown as BACP. Her practice is based in the United Kingdom.
In which languages can sessions be held?
Sessions are offered in English and the therapist is able to work with international clients.
What session formats are available?
Sessions can take place by video call, phone, live chat or text-based messaging. This offers options for different schedules and communication preferences.
How are costs handled?
Fees vary with location and the therapist’s schedule; sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time. Exact pricing is provided through the platform.
How do I begin working with her?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist’s availability.
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